Hyperwrx
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Recently in a discussion here we had an individual claim humiliating his son/daughter in front of their peers was a perfectly acceptable and beneficial form of punishment. Good parenting techniques take time and effort. A lazy parent finds humiliation a quick and effortless form of correcting the problem immediately. Oftentimes the parent is repeating a vicious circle of abuse he/she experienced as a child by his parent.
Here is an article where they explain it and a few other harmful disciplinary techniques. It needs to be posted as there is always people in need of education.
http://life.familyeducation.com/parenting/punishment/45305.html?page=1&detoured=1
Highlight of the article
Humiliation (and by this I mean those forms of old-fashioned punishment like making a child stand in a corner with a dunce cap on, pulling down his pants and spanking him in public, washing his mouth out with soap, or sending him to bed without dinner) wears down a child's self-image and self-respect.
Humiliation teaches a child that you don't value him. Respect your child—his body, his mind, and his ego. Never underestimate the damage that can be done by humiliating a child. One of the most common triggers of suicide in kids and teenagers is a humiliating experience. His sense of self is a very delicate flower, easily stomped.
Here is an article where they explain it and a few other harmful disciplinary techniques. It needs to be posted as there is always people in need of education.
http://life.familyeducation.com/parenting/punishment/45305.html?page=1&detoured=1
Highlight of the article
Humiliation (and by this I mean those forms of old-fashioned punishment like making a child stand in a corner with a dunce cap on, pulling down his pants and spanking him in public, washing his mouth out with soap, or sending him to bed without dinner) wears down a child's self-image and self-respect.
Humiliation teaches a child that you don't value him. Respect your child—his body, his mind, and his ego. Never underestimate the damage that can be done by humiliating a child. One of the most common triggers of suicide in kids and teenagers is a humiliating experience. His sense of self is a very delicate flower, easily stomped.