Normally, the Admin of a website invite members that are deemed undesirable to exit. The TOS addresses that directly, members should read it. It covers how members should conduct themselves. Telling a member by a member to exit the site is unacceptable.
So... are you for strict moderation of the forum or against it? I'd swear from reading your post that you are consistently complaining of this site being over-moderated in the past. Or is moderation only something that should happen to other members when that member disagrees with your opinion or your friend? Obviously SpeedBee is in violation of the TOS and he hasn't been moderated. I think he is picking a fight, so he should be prepared when he catches some pushback from others. And the other members should be extended the same latitude as the Bee. Just for clarity, which is it for you? Consistent moderation for all or only for some at certain times when you approve?
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