I think it has more to do with magnum loads than belted brass. Any high intensity load is going to stretch brass more, thus giving shorter case life. If you loaded your 7 mag at old 7X57 pressures, the brass would last just as long. I load for my belted rounds the same as for any others.
You'll need to get a paper clip, straighten it, then bend just the tip to make a feeler that you insert into the mouth of the case and use to check for case head separation (I think that's what it's called). Maybe Jack or one of the old pros will chime in here with some more technical information about this technique. In the meantime, do a few searches here, I'm sure it's been discussed before.