why not pick him up a 300 blackout for his training gun instead.
he'll be able to shoot regular factory ammo without worrying about recoil, and at typical deer hunting distances of around 125 yds or less with a good hunting bullet its more than effective for helping whitetails attain room temperature. hornady 110gr vmax loads, nosler 110gr varmageddons, barnes 110gr blacktips, or hornady 135gr ftx offerings are more than suitable for the task.
[edit]as a reloader, you can keep him in practice ammo on the cheap too - we're talking in the neighborhood of 350 rounds out of a pound of powder for full house loads and upwards of 400 for a moderate plinking load (my goto plinker is 17 grains of lil gun under a 123gr or 125gr bullet). [/edit]
no fussing around with reduced loads, no worry about recoil (my cousins girls were shooting mine at 5 and 6 years old), just a plug and play option. and with the 6 position stocks on a typical ar-15 firearm, makes for easy LOP adjustment as he grows up. it could be a real confidence building firearm for a youth.
hold onto that 243 for later when he grows up a bit and can handle the full house loads and his shooting abilities allow him to outgrow the capabilities of the blackout.
just throwing it out there.