canislatrans54
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To be honest, this probably isn't a topic that I should bring up on the internet, but, since my family is involved, I can't talk to them...and I'm not sure I want to spend the money to ask a "counselor".
Since I spend so much time on here, I feel that a lot of you are like "extended family".
So, here goes......
If a family member doesn't live with you; you only see them maybe 2-3 times a month; and you're not certain they would tell you the truth anyway......
Are there any "real" ways to tell if someone is using drugs?
I am at a loss.
Thirty years ago, I drank quite often, but was always very determined not to get suckered into drugs.
So, I have never used drugs myself, & never [knowingly] have had friends that have used them.
I have 3 adult sons, all in their 20's.
One of them recently, in private, told me that his older brother has a drug problem, and that's why he can't get along with him.
However, he has no physical proof he can show me. Only his "opinion". And I question that because since returning from Iraq 3 years ago, he has had a major attitude problem, has low self-esteem (although he pretends that he's super-confident), and thinks the world "owes" him.
So, I'm trying to figure out which brother actually may have the real problem, as the older one seems to have no problems, other than jumping from job to job.
Since I spend so much time on here, I feel that a lot of you are like "extended family".
So, here goes......
If a family member doesn't live with you; you only see them maybe 2-3 times a month; and you're not certain they would tell you the truth anyway......
Are there any "real" ways to tell if someone is using drugs?
I am at a loss.
Thirty years ago, I drank quite often, but was always very determined not to get suckered into drugs.
So, I have never used drugs myself, & never [knowingly] have had friends that have used them.
I have 3 adult sons, all in their 20's.
One of them recently, in private, told me that his older brother has a drug problem, and that's why he can't get along with him.
However, he has no physical proof he can show me. Only his "opinion". And I question that because since returning from Iraq 3 years ago, he has had a major attitude problem, has low self-esteem (although he pretends that he's super-confident), and thinks the world "owes" him.
So, I'm trying to figure out which brother actually may have the real problem, as the older one seems to have no problems, other than jumping from job to job.