Light a match, and hold it under the bullet to give it a smokey look on the surface. The idea is simply to make any mark on the bullet (caused by the rifling touching the bullet if it's not seated deep enough) easier to see.
Take a bullet, minus the case, and drop it nose first into your chamber. With the bullet resting in the end of the chamber (against the lands), stick a ramrod into the barrel far enough to touch the bullet. Mark the ramrod at the end of the barrel. Then pop the bullet loose with the ramrod, and remove it from the chamber.
Now close the bolt with the chamber empty, and re-insert the ramrod into the barrel so that the end is touching the bolt face. Mark the ramrod at the end of the barrel again.
Now use a caliper to measure the distance between the two marks on the ramrod, and that should be your max length.
Assemble a dummy round (no powder or primer) and then "smoke" the bullet. Chamber the cartridge, remove, and then check the bullet to see if there are any marks on it. If there are, seat it just a tiny bit deeper, smoke the bullet again, and rechamber it. Repeat until no marks appear, and then use your dummy round to adjust your dies for the max length.
Save the dummy round for future reference, and it helps to put it in a ziplock bag and mark the bag on what it is and what bullet it holds.
FWIW,
Daryl